Juan... I understand completely what you are describing but you seem to be referring mostly to “non-average” scenes. Can you show us example of your work where the image is what you are looking for, and an image that is not what you are looking for.
Asking others for an exposure recommendation doesn’t seem to be the approach I’d be taking to address photographic exposure. I’ve had some spare time on my hands lately and compared spot metering of shadows vs average metering and found them to generally be close enough to each other. Hence, an assurance that paying more attention to subject matter and composition results in more and better photographic images.