A diffuser is good to have to integrate the colors for an average reading on a print. I use mine to get very close when using a different film on the same paper. It's also handy if the color balance of the image is different, like a shot under tungsten or open shade when you have a good color for normal conditions.
Assuming you have found a filter set for a good print:
In actual use I hold the diffuser under the lens with the probe head switched to cyan and set a null on the meter, do the same with the other colors and the white light setting. This sets the meter for your paper.
Going to a different image, hold the diffuser under the lens, set to cyan and null the meter with the aperture, since the cyan should be at zero. The other two colors set the null with the filter dials. By the time you get to the white light setting it should be close to a null, adjust with the aperture.