IIRC, selenium toning is pretty good protection against anything else happening to your negative, so if the first time doesn't do it, get out your #4 contrast filter or get some #4 paper.
I use the rehalogenating bleach such as is used with sulfide toning with redevelopment in a staining developer. This can be very simple, as redevelopment will be to completion. As long as you're not concerned about particular printing materials, an MQ or PQ solution with little or no sulfite will stain quite well. The proportions are not critical. Sulfite inhibits staining, so use very little or none at all. The process can be repeated to intensify the stain. The silver part of the image remains. Too much repitition may cause stress cracks in the emulsion due to the tanning action.
What else does selenium do besides make your hair fall out?