First, the obvious answer: Read the manufacturer's directions. Moersch has good documentation and has a web site with everything you need to know, You do have to invest your time a bit, but it's well worth it.
Some basics: Print developer is usually only good for a session or two as it degrades due to oxidation. Mix the minimum you need for a session if possible. I don't know what you mean by only doing two 30x40 prints a session (not 30x40 inches I imagine, but 30x40cm). Heck I can't even do test strips and trial prints and print one good print without using 4-5 sheets of paper...
Stop bath is good till it quits stopping prints. If you have an indicator stop bath, then it will turn color when exhausted. Non-indicator stops have capacity indications in throughput. Read the label/directions for this.
Fix also has throughput capacity. This is based on the quality of fixing you want, i.e., the permanence of the print. However, two-bath fixing should get you at least 30-35 20x24 cm fiber-base prints per liter of bath one. I assume you know the mechanics and methods relating to two-bath fixing. If not, get reading, here and elsewhere.
You should also know that fixer goes bad with time as well. Fix saved into a partially-full bottle will only last about a month. In an open tray you only have a week.
HypoCA and other wash aids oxidize rapidly and should only be used one-shot. Mix just what you need for the prints you make in one session. Read the label for the capacity.
Selenium toner is good till it stops toning your prints. At that point, you have two choices: 1. Be irresponsible and uneconomical and discard it down the drain (if you choose to do this, soak some scrap prints in the toner overnight to scavenge as much of the remaining selenium from solution as possible so you aren't pouring toxic selenium into the water-treatment system) or 2. replenish your toner with a bit of stock solution to re-activate it. Since your using 1+19 (for whatever reason) then I'd add a 25th part or so to your solution and then check to see how it works. If you still need more activity, then add a tiny bit more stock. You can replenish toner this way indefinitely as long as you filter it before and after your toning sessions (use filter paper or paper coffee filters). I have two bottles of toner that have been going for more than 10 years this way.
If you're not sure about the toxicity/safety of the chemicals you are using, then you shouldn't use them until your are. Again, read the labels or go to the website! Moersch products are well-documented.
Good luck,
Doremus