yes, unfortunately the guide didn't mention there was slop in between the screw holes and the threading underneath that would affect it so much. The slop is only a mm or two. The metering trick won't work, I don't think, as the camera meters wide open.
Thanks though as you gave me an idea, and I didn't even need another lens.
The meter in the camera is affected by the DOF preview. So I took a reading wide open, then I did a DOF preview with the aperture closed by one stop, then two, then three, four, five, and six. On each of those the meter suggested to open the aperture one stop, then two, then three etc... until the meter ran out of range.
So I'm happy that this lens is working at least okay. Certainly better than when it was gummed open.