In both cases would I have been better to mix the full 2.5 lite kits than mixing them as and when I used them?
Yes.
The problem with C41 concentrates is that it's not possible to make a very concentrated solution that holds both the CD-4 developing agent and the hydroxylamine sulfate antioxidant at the same time. They go together fine in a fairly dilute solution (e.g. working strength, or twice working strength). As a result, if you have a concentrate like the ones made my PhotoSys/"Kodak", Jobo, Fuji etc., the little bottle with the CD-4 concentrate really has virtually unprotected CD-4 in it. The main/only protection is the bottle itself. Hence, as soon as the seal is broken, the developing agent is subject to oxidation (and even before this through permeability of the bottle itself to air). In the mixed developer, the CD-4 developing agent is protected against oxidation by the presence of hydroxylamine (or a similar compound). If you store this in a hermetically sealed, non-permeable bottle (e.g. glass), it'll generally have a longer shelf life than an opened or sometimes even factory-sealed (!) concentrate. The drawback of course is volume; it's bigger and heavier to store & ship, which is likely why the major manufacturers stick to concentrates (with a limited shelf life).
Note that Bellini deviates from this and offers a single-bottle C41 developer which is apparently at roughly the concentration limit for a single solution (intended for ca. 1+3 dilution); the shelf life of this single solution is allegedly excellent, which is consistent with what I explain above.