This brings to mind an interesting question -
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So is it because Bob was a truly mediocre photographer of his chosen subject matter, or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
. So is it because Bob was a truly mediocre photographer of his chosen subject matter, or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
This brings to mind an interesting question -
What if he were the second coming of Richard Avedon, or Ansel Adams? would we be so quick to condemn? There is a long history of famous artists getting a free pass for their oddities of personality and/or behavior if they are great enough. Picasso, Caravaggio (multiple brawls and even a murder or two), Michelangelo (bit off someone's nose). We even make movies that satirize the art world for its glorification of criminal artists (Art School Confidential). So is it because Bob was a truly mediocre photographer of his chosen subject matter, or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
Well, don't you understand that if an adult man uses a weak position of a teenage drug addict girl,
Ah yes, it's amazing how quickly people become adults on their 18th birthday and suddenly start acting mature. That's why we allow them to drink at that age. Oh wait, that law was changed almost 20 years ago. Now the government doesn't believe people are mature enough to drink until they turn 21, at which point they suddenly become even more mature than at 18.
She was underage for drinking. At the very least, he provided her with alcohol, a crime in and of itself and one which would impair her judgement. So if the argument is that she did everything of her own unimpaired and mature judgement, I would have to disagree. Even more so if he really did put morphine into her wine.
This is a completely unfair characterization of the point I was making. No one believes maturity suddenly happens at age 18. Maturity increases continuously from birth. The law simply says that at 18, it has increased to the point where you can move out of your home, get your own place and become self-supporting. The point I was making was that referring to her as a teenage girl has connotations of pedophilia - which in this case is quite unfair.
George,
this is a somewhat unfair characterization. At 19, this girl is considered an adult in this society and is responsible for her own actions. The way you put it makes it sound like he was taking advantage of a 16 year old.
The way I put it sounds like she was a teenager. The 16 year old and pedophilia is the way YOU put it, remember that? Maybe because for you the words "teenage girl" has "a connotation of pedophilia". So much for your lesson of fairness.
TFC, I believe the man behaved very badly. He violated the generalized incest taboo (the strong should not take advantage of the weak; incest is a special case of this) with, alas, disastrous consequences.This brings to mind an interesting question -
<snip> So is it because Bob was a truly mediocre photographer of his chosen subject matter, or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
Because even sadder is when I go to Bethesda Navel Medical Center or Walter Reed Medical hospital for medical treatments is to see 18 and 19 year olds missing arms, legs, both legs; they haven't begun to enjoy life. And how do we treat them????? Sorry, right now, this whole situation has gotten me sick and and it reminds me of other issues at hand. So I am signing with this.
A Disable Vet
He didn't use the imaired condition of the woman, he helped induce the impaired condition of the woman. So I would say you're at least omitting a major point of the story. She could have been 90 years old and what he did was still extremely questionable. As others have pointed out, he certainly knew the issues of photographing a nude, female model alone, having written about them himself. He compounded the situation by, at the very least, knowingly let her consume alcohol beforehand.
Regardless of whether he killed the woman, he put himself in an extraordinarily compromising condition with her. To classify what even he admits he DID do as "stupid" is a gross understatement.
... or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
You suggested the better phrasing was of "an impaired woman." This too is misleading. He caused the impairment. It wasn't like she, unknown to him, showed up impaired. He played an active roll. If you are trying to properly characterize his behavior (two consenting adults did . . . ), then you are at best downplaying, if not omitting, a major part of his culpable behavior. I agree he was not technically a pedophile, but he was certainly a manipulator of young women.
Lifestyle? I suppose if someone's "lifestyle" is drugging me and then sexually defiling my corpse I am a bit nervous at least.
I think that you are implying that people are distracted by the sexual fetish. Maybe so, but the jury was not. They did not convict him of fetishism but involuntary manslaughter. But anyway, how can you interpret this stuff as a lifestyle? That seems like very politically correct language hoping to normalize major sexual problems/deviancy as if the occasional death is par for the course of his lifestyle.
Yes - well I believe I said "something like" - I didn't intend my sentence to be an accurate characterization of what he did - simply an alternative way to refer to her.
BTW - I am in no way trying to defend Bob here - from what I have read his actions were indeed reprehensible and I think his sentence is fair - after all he was found guilty of depriving her of 40-60 years of life.
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Since I did not sit on that jury, and all I can work from is second-hand information reported by news media, I refrain from passing my own judgement.
My point in posing my question was, lots of people have been feeling free to pour opprobium upon him, based only on the same secondhand information.
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Thus my previous example of Caravaggio - he was known to be continuously in trouble with the law,.....
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To cite a more modern example, Robert Mapplethorpe.
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So is it because Bob was a truly mediocre photographer of his chosen subject matter, or is it because he led a lifestyle that most people don't understand and are afraid of, that we condemn him so harshly?
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