Eric,
I used to use the rental darkrooms in Tokyo too, when I lived in Kumamoto (I happen to go up to Tokyo a lot back then). The place I used I think was using all Fuji chemicals. The only thing I didn't like about it was the fixer had hardener in it, which I didn't want, but other than that, it was a good set-up.
I've been using Ilford chemicals for all my printing needs, but the cost of developer (with it's short life span once opened) is just not worth it anymore. So I've gone with Chugai chemicals for normal, non-essential stuff, like contact prints and the postcard exchange, and it seems fine. That said, Dektol does seem to be reasonably priced for a package, so just get one of those big graduated cylinders they have in the darkroom section and use that for all your mixing needs.
I've also recently been buying more chemicals and film from
Silversalt - it has a variety of developers that don't appear in the big stores here, like Adox, Rollei, Spur, and Moersch (the last not particularly cheap, but definitely worth it).