Hi,
normally i'm a very calm person but tonight i lost it.
Robert.
Robert...
Many years ago, I was hired to photograph a wedding... the mother and bride arrived back at the house (from the hairdresser) about the same time that they were actually due at the church. We had had an agreed (and signed ) schedule of 'required' photographs with bride/groom and relatives before (and after the ceremony, reception etc.). Unfortunately, the bride's mother decided that many more photographs with relatives from 'the old country" were "absolutely more than necessary" before they left for church ceremony... while I was on a film use "budget".
The bride's mother became more than obnoxious... to the stage where I was obliged to have a quiet word with "father" (who was more than apologetic) about the amount of film, plus some 'spare rolls' that I had available ( I have been known to screw up here and there/now and again).
Foul and objectionable language followed my quiet explanation about my 'restrictions' due to contract.. but was also somewhat flexible and was able to deviate if I had enough film available, even though I have been known to deviate a little from the 'contract. The straw eventually broke the back of the camel when my parentage and 'professionalism/abilities' were both criticised and brought into question... at which time I ripped the last roll of exposed film out of the 'blad and handed it to a somewhat surprised mother as i stomped out of the house (followed by an extremely apologetic father). I don't think I have ever been so angry at unsubstantiated verbal abuse.
Those exposures that had been made, were processed, proof-printed and delivered to the family residence (at cost plus) before the bride and groom returned from their honeymoon.
Not too long after, I gave up on photographing weddings... that one ended in separation/divorce proceedings less than two years later... as did four out of the next five weddings that I was 'privileged' to photograph.
I seem to be somewhat of a 'jinx' I am no longer seen with a camera at a wedding.
Ken