The problem isn't the dark slide or the insert, it is either the camera or the film back. When the dark slide is inserted, and operates a small switch which either opens or closes two of the contacts on the back. I'm not sure which two contacts, or the state of those contacts, but I could probably find out. Chances are good that when the dark slide is in it closes the contact, since the camera operates fine with the back removed (all contacts are then open). You can (carefully) get to the switch by removing the 9 screws and lifting the "plate" off. Be carefull as there are some small parts that will be loose (depending on whether you have the old or new style back). I've only had one of mine apart, so my memory is a little foggy. Mine has a winding problem where the gears jam when moving fast. I have a feeling that it has been used to death. i use that back with a pinhole camera that I made since it winds fine by hand.
Now if the problem happens to be with your camera, you are really out of luck! Might as well drill a hole in the dark slide plastic and tie a large bright ribbon to the end to remind you to remove it!
Is this the newer or older style back? The newer style uses a small pin to on the mounting surface to release the dark slide. The older style has a lever in the bottom mount that gets pressed to release the slide. The newer often has a red slide, the older a blue slide. The slides are exactly the same except for the color of the plastic.