From everything I've read, Diafine is not good with old fogged film, and HC-110 or possibly TMax Developer would work well with the proper dilutions and possibly some restrainer. There are people here who get decent results with older film, but with longer exposure times and more work in development and printing. Searching APUG you can find some good information from people who have already done this; take advantage of their work and expand the knowledge-base.
I have to believe that adding restrainer to Diafine would not help, though it sounds interesting, and if you test this idea, please post some results. (It would help to take the exact same photo repeatedly, and document EI, development, etc., so good comparisons can be made.)
There is nothing wrong with playing around and experimenting, just don't commit any "important" photos to the experiments until you are confident you can repeat the results.