Thank You everyone for the quick answers!
I managed to fix the issue really easy at the end.
First I made simmulation for a lens arrangement like the apotar here phydemo.app/ray-optics/simulator/.
This way I figured out, that the distance between first and second lens must be varied to focus, so now I know, that the front tubus consist of two two elements, which are suposed to move relative to each other. I am am not able to move them, so this must be the "frozen" state
1) I just removed the aluminium ring with focus distance markings by loosening the three tiny screws at the side of the ring - without making any markings - I will collimate the lens at the end
2) I unscrewed the front element of the lens (two lenses) from the shutter
3) I unscrewed the rear cap on this element and removed the shutter facing second lens
4) I put the rest of the front element with one lens into isopropyl alcohol overnight
5) Next day the rear outer ring and the front inner tubus moved freely, so I unscrewed them apart
6) Now I put all elements again into isopropyl alcohol bath for an hour to get rid of the old lubricant with a toothbrush afterwards
7) I cleanded the lenses with isopropyl alcohol and put everything together again
8) I screwed the loosened outer ring with the second lens into the shutter again using a spanner tool
9) Now I screwed the front tubus with the first lens into the outer ring using some grease between - going back and forth now moves the focus
Now I collimated the lens to adjust the focus
1) I covered a thin 6x7 piece of polycarbonate sheet with scotch tape, the matt variery. I scratched a cross in the middle onto the taped surface
2) I put the camera on a tripod. Opened the camera back, fastened this focus screen into the film plane and put enough light on this focus screen on the back of the camera
3) I set the shutter into "B", opened the aperture fully (4.5) and opened the shutter - it stays open in "B" locked (by tape or with the long exposure lock feature)
4) I got another SLR camera with 85 mm lens, focused it to infinity and looked with this second camera through the front of the apotar lens at the focus screen looking for the cross
5) I focused the agfa apotar to see this cross clealry through the second SLR camera
6) Now the agfa apotar is focused at infinity. I put the aluminium ring back, aligned infinity mark with black diamond and fastened the three tiny screwed again.
Work done. Camnera is focusing correctly and is clean again. Time for photographs