What others said, get a longer lens, 105mm or use a 135mm that you may have for 4x5. I wonder if that head is to heavy for the motor? The springs can be adjusted and may help if that is a problem.
i would contact Beseler to find out the proper lube. WD40 mucks up a lot of equipment and may not be a wise choice. If stored for a time in a humid environment, perhaps some rusting has occurred and that plus any lube that has lost it original qualities may be what is causing the roughness you mentioned. Disassemble, clean, oil, reassemble, adjust, will be as good as new.
Your wide angle makes the 45 look gigantic next to the 23C.