Edit: I don't wash between dev, stop or fixer. I only wash after the fixer (I don't do a pre-soak either).
I always use (and re-use) indicator stop bath for film and paper though I use separate solutions for each purpose. I use it until it indicates via color change that it is done, then I dump it.
I reuse fixer as well but I test my fixer before I use it, before every roll and if the clearing time is slow, I dump it (yes, I should really get a silver magnet). I once used fixer that I knew was slow and I had to refix and rewash the roll as there were problems so now I know it is not worth it, test before and dump it if it is bad.