Yes, you are right. What you are doing is measuring the light ratios for negative parts with different densities. If you want to calibrate your negative/positive process, this is what you need. It's the light that exposes your paper, not the density.
However, the light ratio depends on the film density AND the type of light source.
To become independent of the type of light source densitometers use diffused light.
And because of this, no, your value will not be the same as a value measured with a densitometer and not the same as the curves shown in the datasheets.
Depending on your light source, it may be close.