For the first developer, it's definitely a "no-no" in big, bold, capital, red letters. With a ring of flashing lights around them, too.
For the other steps you may be able to kludge something with dilute chemistry if you extend processing times. Essentially, all other steps are supposed to go to completion, so as long as you process long enough, you should be able to get away with a higher dilution. How much exactly? I don't know. Will diluting the color developer produce different results in terms of color balance, adjacency effects etc? Probably, yes, but will it be actually visible, or bother you...? I dunno...
thinking of ways to keep the costs down
If you want to keep cost down, shoot digital or shoot a smaller format.
A single sheet of 4x5" Ektachrome costs, what €20 or so? Trying to save a little on processing chemistry by diluting it doesn't make any sense. It's like buying a Ferrari and then asking around if it's OK to let it run on waste oil from the fryer and if the tires can be replaced by bicycle tires. It'll still be a Ferrari...
Is all E-6 chemistry (Bellini, Fuji Hunt etc) also one shot developer?
Fuji chemistry is essentially all designed to be replenished. I imagine the small 'hobby' kits are sold with the idea that they will be used one shot, but Fuji has always been in the volume business and that means they optimize their chemistry to work in a robust way in large volume settings. This means replenishment, but this also means high throughput. It's not something you're going to achieve at home.
In a home setting, what you could do is break it down into each step and then figure out for each step how to do it in an economic way.
The first developer is critical in every way, so there's not much you can do about that.
The color developer is less critical than the FD, but it won't live forever. You may be able to make it last pretty long by storing in a tightly capped bottle without any air (glass, entirely full), and kept in the dark. I'd not take too many chances with it, though.
Baths like fogging, bleach, pre-bleach etc. tend to have good longevity and capacity, but it depends on the exact composition of what you've got. If and how they can be diluted, used beyond stated capacity, replaced with stuff from other kits or DIY-ed, really depends. I suppose a good PDTA C41 bleach will work for E6 as well.
Fixer is basically a pretty standard chemical and any old C41 fixer should work just fine for E6.
Stabilizer can be DIY-ed by just adding a few drops of formalin and optionally some Photoflo to demineralized water.
All this means you have to work out for the brand(s) of chemistry you intend to use how they work (the MSDS and lots of Googling will get you pretty far), what their mechanisms of degradation are, how deviations will affect the final outcome and what the options for stretching, diluting, preserving etc. are.
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@Rudeofus can offer some suggestions or rectifications on the above in terms of stretching, preserving & diluting chemistry.
But really, it's slide film...there's no fudge factor in it.